Sex work the “only option” for Malawi’s abandoned child brides


When Memory Chitsulo was in school in Malawi she married a man a decade older. Her husband soon left for South Africa, abandoning her with a baby. Desperate for money, the teenager turned to sex work.

Charities in the southern African country say child brides are increasingly being pushed into prostitution as growing numbers of early marriages break down.
“My parents died in a bus accident when I was 14. I got married because no one could take care of me. But he immediately left for South Africa as he couldn’t find work here,” said Chitsulo.
“He stopped calling after two years. It’s been 10 years now,” added the mother-of-two, now 25, who works from a brothel in Luchenza in southern Malawi.

Although child marriage is illegal, nearly half of girls in Malawi wed before their eighteenth birthday and nine percent before they turn 15, according to the UN children’s agency UNICEF.

Charities say many child marriages collapse as poverty and unemployment drive tens of thousands of young Malawian men to seek work in South Africa.
“Many girls don’t survive early marriages, either because they face abuse and violence by their older partners, or because they are abandoned,” said Forbes Msiska, executive director of Badilika, a charity supporting vulnerable girls with vocational training.
“I’ve talked to some young women left by husbands who went to South Africa, but they don’t receive any financial support from their men. They end up prostituting in order to survive and support their children.”

Maxwell Matewele, executive director of the charity Eye of the Child, said there was a visible increase in the number of children forced into prostitution.

He said most girls were aged 14 to 18 years, but he had come across some as young as nine.

Matewele called for government to do more to address the root causes of child prostitution and for tougher legislation.

Government said it was aware of an increase in the number of young sex workers in the country, but could not say whether the breakdown in child marriages was a factor.


A few years ago it was highly unusual to see sex workers outside Malawi’s cities, but they are increasingly pitching up in rural settlements as competition in urban areas drives them to find new clients.

Many work from drinking joints which proliferate across Malawi.

In Namisasi, a quiet and unremarkable trading settlement in southern Malawi, villagers were astonished last year when eight sex workers arrived with babies and set up business.

Joyce Masamba, a 27-year-old mother-of-three, works out of a pub seeing up to three clients a day – mostly local businessmen. She earns about 1,000 Malawi Kwacha ($1.40) a client.
“I was forced out of school to marry when I was 15,” she told the Thomson Reuters Foundation outside the bar where she works.
“I gave birth the same year but the man, who was 10 years older, started going out with other women. When I confronted him, he left me and the baby. Sex work was the only option I had to care for the baby and myself.”

Masamba now has three young children who live with her in a room provided by the owner. She hopes to give them the chances she hasn’t had, but money is tight.
“I can’t properly feed and clothe my children,” she said. “Goodness knows how I’ll support them when they reach secondary school and need things like school fees.”


Experts say early marriage not only destroys a girl’s future but also perpetuates inter-generational poverty – children of parents with no education or skills are unlikely to break out of the poverty cycle.

Earlier this year, Malawi minister of gender, Jean Kalilani, described child marriage as “a huge threat” to the country’s economic and social development.

She said factors exacerbating the high child marriage rate included poverty, low literacy levels among parents, a lack of female role models, peer pressure and harmful cultural practices exposing children to sex early in life.

In 2014, Malawi launched a mass media campaign on ending child marriages called Lekeni (Stop) aimed at changing mindsets and encouraging girls to stay in school.

Malawi outlawed child marriage in 2015 and amended its constitution to ban marriage under 18 earlier this year.

Government says the law and other initiatives are having an impact, while charities say it will take a lot more to end a deeply entrenched practice.
“All my colleagues here and me were married off and had children before the age of 18,” said Masamba.
“When I look back I don’t think I should have been married off so young, but that’s what everybody was doing. It’s embedded in our culture.”